Uninterrupted connection, succession, uninterrupted duration or continuation especially without essential change. As a project manager at an
Interactive Design Agency, I'm always hearing about, talking about it and perhaps, even reminding people to maintain continuity in their designs. I got to thinking about the meaning and began asking myself, "How does maintaining continuity in our lives, effect us?"
While enjoying a nice nosh and a cup of joe with a close friend, I listened, as she divulged about a tumultuous relationship she had been dealing with. She explained the history and how difficult it was becoming for her to move away from the lingering ties between them. As I listened to the story, I kept hearing an underlying theme that seemed to existence throughout their relationship. She was
maintaining continuity in her relationship and now faced with the challenge of breaking away from the pattern.
Do we
exist in these unbroken, consistent patterns because its easier than facing the occasional heartbreak? Are we afraid to feel lost or without direction?
I've heard people say, they are afraid of feeling, but I would be more afraid to not feel. Regardless of what it may be, pain, joy, sadness, loss... I maintain that for now, the continuity in my life will be an unbroken pattern of
awareness. So that I might never allow myself to be trapped in the fear of something new.